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Fear
of losing custody
of what he will do to her
Perceived dependence
Beliefs
that the violence is temporary
that he will change
that this goes with the territory
that she can stop the violence
that divorce is wrong
Pressure
cultural and religious
guilt about failure of relationship
feelings of personal incompetence
Love for the abuser
Lack
of resources
of social support
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Effects on Women
Stress disorders
Low self esteem
Social isolation
Constant fear/terror
Helpless
Hopeless
Powerless
Effects on Children
Self blame
Low self esteem
High risk for assaults
Assumes violence to be the norm
Isolation
Bargaining behavior
Sadness, depression
High risk for substance abuse
High risk for sexual activities
Poor impulse control
Fear/ terror
Drop in school performance |